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November 29, 2010 by Amy Welborn

….the problem cannot be overcome by the distribution of prophylactics: on the contrary, they increase it. The solution must have two elements: firstly, bringing out the human dimension of sexuality, that is to say a spiritual and human renewal that would bring with it a new way of behaving towards others, and secondly, true friendship offered above all to those who are suffering, a willingness to make sacrifices and to practise self-denial, to be alongside the suffering. And so these are the factors that help and that lead to real progress: our twofold effort to renew humanity inwardly, to give spiritual and human strength for proper conduct towards our bodies and those of others, and this capacity to suffer with those who are suffering, to remain present in situations of trial. It seems to me that this is the proper response, and the Church does this, thereby offering an enormous and important contribution. We thank all who do so.

Pope Benedict XVI in a conversation with journalists on the flight to Africa March, 2009.

Remember?

Remember how he was raked over the coals for being so ideologically blind and heartlessly cruel?

Because he said condoms make the problem of HIV worse.

So what did he say this time?

There may be a basis in the case of some individuals, as perhaps when a male prostitute uses a condom, where this can be a first step in the direction of a moralization, a first assumption of responsibility, on the way toward recovering an awareness that not everything is allowed and that one cannot do whatever one wants.  But it is not really the way to deal with the evil of HIV infection. That can really lie only in a humanization of sexuality.

Are you saying, then, that the Catholic Church is actually not opposed in principle to the use of condoms?

She of course does not regard it as a real or moral solution, but, in this or that case, there can be nonetheless, in the intention of reducing the risk of infection, a first step in a movement toward a different way, a more human way, of living sexuality.

No real difference, as far as I can see.

The arguments have raged over the past week about what the Pope really meant here.  You can engage that battle if you are not already spent – not being an expert in the theory and language of moral theology, I won’t dare to start or even enter.

And should he have even said it?  Was it prudent? Many think not – quite strongly – and believe that this kind of conversation is at the very least unwise and even inappropriate for a Pope. I don’t really have an opinion, although it seems to me that Pope Benedict is very much a “let the chips fall where they may and sort themselves out” person – presenting something and letting us determine our own relationship to what is said or done.

When I originally read that passage , I knew it would be controversial – anyone would – but I also didn’t take it as a doctrinal or prescriptive statement.  I took it as an observation about a human person’s possible interior state, something that interests Pope Benedict a great deal, something that he engages quite often – what draws us to God? What tempts us to move away?

Thinking about it today, the Flannery O’Connor story “A Good Man is Hard to Find” popped into my head. Then the rest of O’Connor’s work and then Mauriac and then Bernanos Diary of a Country Priest, which I cited in my first post on the book.

I tossed something up on Twitter about it, and got an immediate response from Tony Rossi of The Christophers, who had, as a matter of fact, reflected on the Pope’s comments in light of Wise Blood. So rather than go into it any more myself…here you go.

Pope Benedict seems to be thinking like a novelist or screenwriter here, in getting into the mind of a person who is living a life steeped in sin, but who comes to experience a gradual moral awakening. It’s a common story element in the works of authors like Flannery O’Connor or Graham Greene, and in some modern cinema.

For instance, in her novel Wise Blood, Flannery O’Connor creates the character of Hazel Motes, who rejects the Christianity of his grandfather and wants “to be converted to nothing instead of to evil.” To pursue that goal and mock the beliefs of those around him, he founds the Church Without Christ “where the blind don’t see and the lame don’t walk and what’s dead stays that way.” The irony is that, in pursuing a life that opposes the existence and teachings of Christ, he is slowly moved closer toward Him. Though Motes’ initial actions and intentions are misguided, grace is nevertheless moving his heart, mind, and will in the right direction. You could even say that he is sinning his way toward faith.

 

 

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  1. on November 29, 2010 at 8:30 pm Stefanie

    When my 18-year old daughter and I were discussing the reaction to the Holy Father’s most recent remarks, we both remembered the African trip comments. She was a little disconcerted that hardly anyone in the mainstream or Catholic media was mentioning this. She was irritated that anyone would criticize Benedict’s straightforward answer about when condom use by a previously-selfish person would be considered the ‘beginning’ of morality. Our young people understand a lot more about the fallout of selfish behavior than many would think. And they appreciate Benedict’s guidance. My daughter says that no other religious leaders are saying or doing anything like him.


  2. on November 29, 2010 at 9:01 pm Mr. Chips

    That’s quite an overinterpretation, don’t you think?


  3. on November 30, 2010 at 12:04 am Allison

    I can’t say that Pope Benedict is speaking like a screenwriter or novelist, but it seems obviously human. He speaks like a man with great empathy for us, especially for the “us” who our tradition holds up as the greatest of sinners. Not all conversions are like Saul’s. St. Augustine comes to mind.

    My path to Christ was one of sinning into communion with Christ. I was so hobbled by fear and sin that my conscience was barely in existence, but occasionally, I would respond to the Grace he presented me and reach out in a loving manner beyond myself, having agape. It would be almost always swirling around eros or pain or sin again, almost always leading others and myself to more suffering, but also leading my conscience back to recognize the suffering.

    The most important realization was that this suffering of mine which was empty and pointless, not like Christ’s suffering for us, was not inevitable. Such a tiny glimmer of hope couldn’t instantly nurse me back to living a Christian life. It took time, years really, of coming to see what was already true.

    Pope Benedict speaks about the reality of who we are, the messes we are, the damaged souls we are. His love is for the sinner.


  4. on November 30, 2010 at 12:10 am Amy Welborn

    Thank you so much for that, Allison. That was beautiful.


  5. on November 30, 2010 at 5:31 am Deone

    some of the things I’ve read by Benedict truly make me believe he means it when he says Luther was right about how one gets right with God–that it is by faith as long as faith’s ultimate expression is love. (cf Galatians 5:1-13)

    He has done some amazing work on the relationship between truth and freedom which reveals his Augustinian ties and a realistic view of the nature of man. His depiction of Marxism and the problems it raises in the real world expose any idea of Utopia as a fantasy because of man’s sinful nature.

    of course if sin is the problem, the cross of Jesus Christ is the answer and the gospel is in full view as good news in the face of man’s failed strategies to save himself.

    mary’s words in Luke as she praises God come to mind
    “My soul magnifies the Lord and rejoices in God MY SAVIOR.”

    She was not confused.
    I believe lots of Catholics need to hear the mind of this pope on salvation.
    what Allison said is an incredible backdrop–a canvas where the palette of grace in God’s hands is creating a masterpiece a
    beautiful commentary In my mind on Ephesians 2:8-10
    “for it is by grace you have been saved by faith, and that not of yourselves, it is a gift from God, not of works lest anyone should boast. for we are God’s workmanship (Greek–poiema) created in Christ Jesus to do good works which were foreordained for us that we should do them.”


  6. on November 30, 2010 at 8:54 am David

    I read the Pope as thinking like a confessor rather than an author. He is looking for mitigating factors in sin and the sees in the desire to protect the voice of the conscience.


  7. on November 30, 2010 at 1:26 pm priest's wife

    if I read the word CONDOM again- I’m going to puke

    sorry- they just gross me out…


  8. on November 30, 2010 at 10:37 pm Rich Leonardi

    Pope Benedict seems to be thinking like a novelist or screenwriter here, in getting into the mind of a person who is living a life steeped in sin, but who comes to experience a gradual moral awakening.

    Which is fine for a novelist or a screenwriter, but perhaps imprudent for the shepherd of 1 billion largely uncatechized and therefore now confused Catholics.


  9. on December 1, 2010 at 1:58 pm Patrick

    The last reference in Wise Blood is very akin to statements by the Pope about the connection or relatedness of the believer and the doubter. Through an active and thoughtful doubting the doubter is engaged in a consideration of the faith and the experience of Grace is a possibility. The believer is not immune from the considerations that are convincing to the doubter. I think the Pope sees a relationship between the two and some point where they intersect. I do think the Pope sees light and possibility in dark places.


  10. on December 3, 2010 at 2:43 am David Collins

    So that’s what Wise Blood was about. I read it and thought it was the worst daggone novel I had ever read.

    Alright, I’m a simpleton. Anyway, I’ll take Sir Walter Scott over Flannery O’Connor any day.


  11. on December 3, 2010 at 12:58 pm AnnaB

    It would have been interesting to hear his opinion not only about a male prostitute, but also about the relatively frequent situation of a married couple where one of the spouses has HIV.
    David Collins: I didn’t get Wise blood either.



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