First of all, this has got to be one of the best book titles, ever.
Phil Lawler, editor of Catholic World News, has written an account of the Catholic Church in Boston that focuses on the collapse of visible Catholic life in the area as well as the clerical sexual abuse crisis.
For those who have been following the Boston scandals since 2002 (or even before, with the Porter case, which was not Boston, but in the area, and reflective of the culture), there is not a whole lot new here. Some,
but a great deal of the book is dedicated in detailing those particular cases. In this respect, Lawler provides a useful primer for those who don’t know the awful details and a helpful reminder for those who do.
But in another respect, Lawler does something more. He reaches back through the history of Catholicism in Boston and tries to understand exactly how and when bishops in this area lost their nerve. When and why did they start accomodating with political culture, in particular, that held so many goals in opposition to Church teaching?
If you’re interested in the answer to the question, let Lawler take you on the guided tour. It’s illuminating. Some of it might be familiar territory, but others – such as the Church’s role in the bussing wars of the 1970’s – ordering area Catholic schools to put a cap on enrollment so they couldn’t be used by parents avoiding bussing – was new to me. HIs treatment of the Feeney business was different from any that I’ve read – it would be worth comparing it to other accounts. (The ultimate point being the contrast between the strong treatment of Feeney with the non-treatment of others in subsequent decades, like Robert Drinan).
One can’t fault a book for not fulfilling one’s pre-reading expectations, but the one thing I thought I’d find in the book but didn’t was a treatment of changes in church life beyond the chancery. What was going on in Catholic schools and other institutions? Parish religious education? Liturgical life? The priesthood and religious life? Lawler treats these questions more broadly, in the “this is the post-Vatican II Church landscape.” I had hoped for an accounting of that more specific to Boston.
In the end, this book is less about the faithful departed than it is about bishops charged with leading the faithful.
Over the past few years, Catholics in the United States have become more aware of the responsiblities and role of a bishop than they ever have been before, and more aware of the strengths and weakness of not only their own bishops, but bishops around the country. Sometimes we are faulted, and rightly so, for speaking of “the bishops” as a homogeneous group, equally at fault for whatever we choose to blame them for.
The injustice in blaming “the bishops” for everything lies in the fact that there are many very good and faithful bishops who are living deeply faithful lives, trying to shepherd us despite the daunting obstacles of a hostile culture, a sometimes uncooperative presbyterate and chancery staff and a laity that wants a thousand different things, many of those things sitting in contradiction.
But the other side of the coin is that the bishops do, indeed, act in concert, as a conference. They may object to being characterized as speaking in one voice, but the fact is, they do. It doesn’t matter if Bishop A or Bishop X believes that stronger, more vigorous action should be taken in a certain area or if Bishops M, N and O are disgusted with the behavior of Bishop R. Good for them, but if they allow the cautious majority to set the direction and speak for all, either to the Vatican or to the rest of us, the complaints that we shouldn’t characterize “the bishops” as a monolith doesn’t hold much water.
The story Lawler tells is of an episcopacy weakened by accomodation and fear of disapproval by political and social elites (and perhaps with secrets to hide as well). The trickle-down effect of the accomodationist gestalt is that what is ultimately communicated to the rest of us is that none of this really matters. It’s changeable. It’s not worth sacrificing for.
Of course, there are several other aspects to this story and one that bears repeating again and again is the questions that laity must ask ourselves. A writer who has looked into the abuse crisis extensively told me that along with what we would expect, the most dismaying elements of the situations he researched was the laity’s frequent resistance to their beloved priests being disciplined for abuse – even abuse or other crimes to which they had admitted.
(Related – if you have a chance, catch the documentary, The Sermons of Sister Jane. We caught part of it on IFC the other night. It’s about Sister Jane Kelly, who blew the whistle on Bishop G. Patrick Ziemann. Instructive and depressing, but not surprising.)
I’m not here to dissect this whole situation all over again. What I want to toss out there today is the possibility that there is still a problem with the conviction that Episcopal Tin Ear Syndrome is active and largely untreated.
What bishops – please assume the caveats I outlined above as I use the general term – don’t seem to grasp or perhaps don’t care about is that many out here beyond the chancery are convinced that bishops’ decisions and statements are essentially motivated by:
1) The desire to protect clerical privilege and status
2) A concern with the opinions of elites and large donors
3) Fear of the IRS
So yes, there’s cynicism. And it’s not going to change until the day when someone in a mitre, somewhere, has something more to say about fellow bishops’ malfeasance than “mistakes were made based on incomplete information and flawed assumptions.”
And, I think it’s important to add, the cyncisim only deepens when those who claim that it is the duty of the Catholic Christian to live prophetically find it impossible to act prophetically themselves.
I have always wondered how long it would take for those in leadership to see the big picture: That if you, as the primary teacher of the people in your diocese, accomodate – which is not the same as pastoral sensitivity, although the line can be fuzzy – as I say, if you accomodate, hedge and stay silent, how can you expect the people you lead to act differently? Simply put. if you’re going to accomodate, we are, too, and you abdicate your moral authority to stand up there and call us to sacrificial fidelity, no matter what the cost.
Not to mention, if you ignore or even discourage faithfulness to liturgical and catechetical directives from Rome in your diocese, you abdicate the moral authority to lay guilt trips on us about our duty to support the work of the diocese. You can ignore? So can we.
Now, now, now..that’s not a call. It’s descriptive of a dynamic that I don’t think many people have really thought through. Our faith in Jesus Christ cannot be dependent on what bishops do and don’t do. But I think anyone can see they are, indeed, very important, even in ways of which they themselves are not aware.
This is a long way from the beginning of this post.
The sexual abuse crisis in the Boston Archdiocese was a long time brewing and had many contributing factors. But, as Lawler points out, what was key was this (in a way) mysterious and complex blindness to the call to holiness and sacrificial love of neighbor, especially the weak, and to be bold in that love, ready to risk all as we imitate the love of Jesus.
The takeaway, I think, is about far more than bishops. It’s about all of us.
As we go through yet another day today, during another week in between Masses, in between prayers, on the road, at work, at home..
…who are we trying to please?





I have not read the book yet, but will do so asap.
Always to be remembered is that Phil was fired from his post at the archdiocese of Boston newspaper by Cardinal Law, and some of us felt that there was due cause….but the debris falling from that very acrimonious scene has sometimes been seen in Phil’s writing and commentary.
It’s been a long time since the bishop was primarily the TEACHER of his diocese and not the chief administrator (even the bishop of the poorest, most out of the way place in the Roman Empire was primarily at teacher. We should look back on those days with longing). I don’t mean only intellectual teaching, but also living in concert with that intellectual content. Think of Augustine, or Paulinus of Nola, or the Cappadocian Fathers. I know the bishop cannot get away from administrative concerns and litigation in the US, especially today. But the image of Cardinal Law that I remember most is of him at a cocktail party, hobnobbing with the elite of Boston and it seemed that this was his focus, rather than his teaching and prayer life.
Lawler is wrong to put it all on the bishops. Everyone was complicit here: including the parents who never checked on their children.
I guess what stands out most is the lack of the virtue of asceticism in the lives of all Catholics, not just bishops.
The bishops conference is the elephant in the room. It is ready-made to excuse any bishop from taking a strong stand on anything. Look at the German episcopal conference: do you think they would have elected a clone of Cardinal Lehmann if each bishop had to stand up and declare himself? Only in a pathetic group could they stick their collective middle finger in the face of Benedict XVI.
The USCCB isn’t much different. Remember 2004 and Cardinal Ratzinger’s “Worthiness to Receive Holy Communion,” which was suppressed by Cardinal McCarrick. Many of the bishops later said they hadn’t even SEEN the document, which came up for a vote. So now, the communion controversy is coming up AGAIN.
The episcopal conferences are one more soviet-style encumbrance to genuine episcopal activity.
asceticism is a virtue?
I think the crisis of authority with the bishops is part of a larger deculturation of fatherhood.
Dr. Donald DeMarco has written an interesting article about this topic. Quote:
I wrote in a similar vein about the situation in the Archdiocese of Los Angeles a few years ago.
I firmly believe that the same mechanisms are in still in place and have not changed. Priests misbehave and act out. Bishops protect and cover up for them. Lay people lose out.
I went through an episode of this in my own life in the recent past. The priest was verbally abusive and harassing. (I was an employee.) The defense, when we all sat down, was that I deserved it.
I had gone to the bishop in the first place because I knew the priest was up for a pastorate, and I thought it would be a disaster. I felt responsible for sharing what I had experienced.
(And I said, that I could just wait it out and watch him leave and just chalk it up to a bad working relationship, but I felt like I had to let the bishop know.)
Instead, I was so ‘beaten up’ in the process that an observer at the meeting said it was like watching rape. I have gone through significant personal trauma in my life, and managed to recover from all of them with some perspective and strength. To recover from this I needed several years of therapy.
At the end of it, the priest was assigned to be pastor. He duplicated the same behavior in his next assignment (almost immediately), which incurred a lawsuit that the claimant won. The priest (who was obviously not ready to be pastor) resigned from his pastorate and the priesthood in about a year.
Now, none of this had to do with sexual abuse. But it had a lot to do with protectionism in the clerical culture. There was a good bit of ‘blaming the victim’ and giving the priest a pass. (Suffice it to say that the bishop, who I still have to interact with occasionally, has never commented to me on the final outcome of this episode, nor apologized to me for allowing me to be emotionally eviscerated in his office, nor has he admitted that if he had taken my advice that he would have saved the diocese a bit of money and also saved a parish a lot of grief.)
This is not the only episode similar to this in my working career. In the end, I have to say that every single time I have tried to raise the alarm on a priest’s behavior, I have 1) been the one on trial and 2) eventually proven right. Thankfully. all those men are now out of the priesthood for one reason or another (and one is on his way to forcible laicization.)
But, the system is still in place. They react when it can mean really bad publicity or a lawsuit. But they don’t react constructively when it is something like what I described above. (I chose not to sue, since I wanted to remain in ministry. My colleague chose to sue knowing full well that it would mean probably not being hired again, which has also proven itself out.)
Hopefully, I have been oblique enough to not be identified. And I think that this might be possible, since I know, sadly, this litany of ‘how it works’ is hardly unique.
We will know that the bishops are serious about change when they publicly do penance for their role in the scandal, even if it is just a day apiece in a local monastery, fasting and praying. This would be a spiritual response to a spiritual problem, and I think Catholics would welcome it. Graces for the transformation of all of us in the Church would be poured out, also.
Such an ascetic act would also reaffirm what anyone learns who does even a little reading on the spiritual life–repentance has to involve denying oneself (i.e., ascetic acts), because only in that way do we remove the barriers of our own selfishness that block God’s grace from working in us. Asceticism is to eliminate the various ways we are selfish, thus freeing us to establish the virtues and renew our interior relationship with the Lord. It would be a wonderful lesson for our bishops to teach by their own personal example.
You are right, one of the best books recently out on the issue, and, regarding the US bishops speaking out through their conference, the Holy Father has noted the status of Bishop’s conferences as teaching authorities:
“The decisive new emphasis on the role of the bishops is in reality restrained or actually risks being smothered by the insertion of bishops into episcopal conferences that are ever more organized, often with burdensome bureaucratic structures. We must not forget that the episcopal conferences have no theological basis, they do not belong to the structure of the Church, as willed by Christ, that cannot be eliminated; they have only a practical, concrete function. No episcopal conference, as such, has a teaching mission; its documents have no weight of their own save that of the consent given by the individual bishops.
“It is a matter of safeguarding the very nature of the Catholic Church, which is based on an episcopal structure and not on a kind of federation of national churches. The national level is not an ecclesial dimension.” (Ratzinger, J. Cardinal with Vittorio Messori. (1985). The Ratzinger report: An exclusive interview on the state of the Church. San Francisco; Ignatius Press. pp. 59-60)
Preach it, sistah!
Janice wrote, “I guess what stands out most is the lack of the virtue of asceticism in the lives of all Catholics, not just bishops.” I agree.
lisas wrote: “asceticism is a virtue?”
If I understand correctly, asceticism is a Christian virtue when seen as a means to an end (holiness). The Glossary of the Catechism has an entry for “ascesis”, which references CCC 2015, which says in part, “There is no holiness without renunciation and spiritual battle. Spiritual progress entails the ascesis and mortification that gradually lead to living in the peace and joy of the Beatitudes.”
Fr. Timothy Vaverek wrote a valuable essay called “Christian Asceticism: Breaking Consumerism’s Destructive Hold”. It’s available online, and deserves to be pondered and heeded.
A book which sounds intriguing is “After Asceticism: Sex, Prayer and Deviant Priests”, by the Linacre Institute. Has anybody read it?
Re: #9. Am I the only one who can hear St. Gregory’s relics rattling in St Peters as he turns in his grave in the Clementine Chapel? Long before Mohammed climbed his first camel or Rick Warren wrote A Purposeful Life, our dearly departed illustrious ancestor in the faith promoted the virtues thusly:
Moralia, sive Expositio in Job”
It’s not only bishops, but the heads of religious orders who, as far as this issue is concerned, must be included as well.
I am a priest who was twice sexually assaulted by another priest in my religious community. First I went to the superior of the community who later denied I ever told him about the sexaul assault. When nothing happened I went to my ordinary who is not the diocesan bishop but the provincial superior. His response to me was “It’s not my problem.” He treated me as if I were the one at fault instead of the victim. He refused to transfer either one of us. Over two years later when the perpetrator was transferred it was made very clear to me that it was not because of what he did to me.
Soon after the assault I became the acting superior of the community. This was an impossible situation for me to be in with this priest living in the same community. As time went on the stress of the situation began to take it’s toll. I began to act on my anger in very inappropriate ways. At one point I even went so far as to assault a woman. The police were called but I was not arrested. I should have been. Every other member of the community knew I was in trouble and not one reached out to me. I later found out that the provincial government was well aware of what happened and no one said a word. I became physically and emotionally ill. Finally, I knew it was either leave the rectory or kill myself. I left the rectory. I have been treated as an outcast by my brothers in religion while the priest who assaulted me has faced no retribution. The current provincial treats me with great disrespect. The order does pay my medical bills and keeps me on its medical plan. Were it not for that I would have broken all ties since I am not able to work due to the physical illness that resulted from the sexual assault. Thank God for my family and my faith. Four years later they are the only reasons I am alive.
I write this to show that the situation is far worse than anyone knows. I am not the only priest this has happened to. I know of others in my own religious community as well as outside it. There are religious women who have also experienced the same thing. Hardly anyone knows about us. Hardly anyone knows of the pain and betreyal we have experienced at the hands of our own brothers and sisters in religion, whether we belong to a community of men, women, or a diocese.
I hope my writing this will be of some help to someone. I hope it will let people know that there are still dark, heinous secrets that must be exposed to the light.
I was a good priest. Maybe I can be again one day. Pray for me…. pray for all clergy and religious who have and are suffering at the hands of our brothers and sisters.
Wow! The stories from those within the Church can break your heart. I tell people that I nearly lost my Faith when I worked within the Church in Latin America. The stories here don’t surprise me a bit, but still make me very very sad. God bless the victims and let their faith be protected. As Catholics our Faith is in Christ. If you can keep your eye on him and ignore those who want to tear you away from your Faith, you will survive.
As for the whole laity supporting abusive priests, when my priest at the parish I used to belong was discovered to be a child rapist the people in the parish sent the priest cards of support and gifts! I couldn’t believe it.
Jacqueline asked if anyone has read “After Asceticism: Sex, Prayer and Deviant Priests”, by the Linacre Institute. By coincidence, I just ordered it but I have not yet read it. According to the blurb on Amazon, the book “shows how the infiltration of therapeutic psychology on the training and lifestyles of clergy spawned a cavalier attitude in many priests and bishops about sex and prayer, causing the collapse of ascetical discipline with its devastating effects in the sex abuse crisis.” I don’t know if I would lay all the blame at the doorstep of “therapeutic pyschology” — which I see as more of a symptom than a cause — but I think it is without doubt that the abuse scandal corresponded to a sharp increase in worldliness within the Church and a correspondingly sharp weakening of faith.
To Clare Krishan: I don’t quite understand your last post (I’m often a little dense:<). Could you please clarify?
radicalcathmom,
In theory, you can’t really blame the parishioners for an initial reaction like that. But I hope they didn’t persist in it, once they realized that it meant disbelieving the accuser/victim. In reality, it was difficult to handle people who didn’t believe that my childhood pastor abused all those/us girls. Because for me, the most difficult thing about speaking up, by far, was the fear that I wouldn’t be believed.
Tom Ryan: Considering the more than fair treatment Lawler gives Cdl. Law in the book, your comment is quite remarkable. Maybe you had in mind that circulation under his editorship tripled!
You make it sound as if The Faithful Departed is a sort of spiteful screed, when in fact it is the most detailed, balanced, and thoughtful analysis you will find anywhere.
I’m really surprised that you would impute bad faith to Lawler andadmit that you haven’t read the book!
I’ve been looking forward to reading this review and wasn’t disappointed. What I also find interesting is how the bishops felt their authority eroding both in terms of politics and faith and morals. Each seemed to accelerate the other.
I agree with Janice that not only the bishops but all American Catholics were complicit. The bishops were only doing what lay Catholics in this country had wanted for more than a century: integrating into mainstream American culture. American culture is perverted, so the only way to do that was to allow perverts to run rampant in the Church.
It is the desire on the part of lay Catholics to be integrated into an anti-Catholic culture that created the sex abuse crisis. The bishops were simply moving in the direction the laity wanted.
Let me put it this way: When the many of the laity were cooperating with a culture that was sexually permissive, they have no right to angry with the bishops for doing the same.
Michael Healy,
Their job was to lead us in the right direction; and which came first, the laity disregarding Church teaching and bishops, or bishops disregarding Church teaching and the laity being abused?
After 11 years of marriage, we heard our first sermon preached against contraceptives, and we then stopped using them.
Glad to oblige Jacqueline!
(FYI I referenced #9 by way of a collective post that alluded to two earlier references to “ascetism” rather than your particular facet on that gem of an insight!)
I chuckled with a certain irony seeing we’re so sensible and wise to suggest to our pastors that they practice the Church’s patrimony:-
the mystical life in the Spirit, developed in the West beginning with St Gregory the Great the first ascetic or “monastic” Pope, where the human creature soul traces a contemplative path of purgatio (an ascetic discipline of the psyche), illuminatio (an intellectual docility of the mind), and conjugio (a venerating abandon of one’s will)
Gregory’s love of Scripture gave us the seven deadly sins annunciated in his Moralia, the book I quoted from. The regretable aspect (that would make our dear saints earthly remains get a severe case of ‘agita’ sufficient to cause them to “turn in his grave,” a satirical colloquialism perhaps more British than American) is that his pastoral sensitivity in studying Job’s concern for his sons moral state extending not to their actual conduct but to their coveting such conduct (merely contemplating evil, not actively doing anything evil). Such sensitivity was remarked on by St Thomas Acquinas for example in his refutation to Question 182. Article 1. Whether the active life is more excellent than the contemplative:
http://www.newadvent.org/summa/3182.htm
These are classical Christian texts that all priests and bishops ought be familiar with, not need reminding from the sheep (Gregory by the way is Greek for pastor or “shepherd” from the term for pasture or field that we have our word agriculture from)
In my minds eye I have a Wallace and Gromit-esque skit playing itself out in plastilene-stopped-motion technicolor — with the sheep baa-ing around St Peter’s heels:
“Get over yourself”
“Stop blaming the chicken for coming home to roost”
“Jesus gave you a job to do”
“We ‘ll show you the way to the meadows on the sunny side of the hill”
“There’s a shortcut we found — It’s called the Divine Ascent”
“Listen – you’re in an awful funk, we understand, but even the patience of a bunch of dumb sheep has its limits”
“How about you make some chicken soup for your soul with that wretched cockerel you strangled?”
“And apologize to that servant girl you lied to, she’ll appreciate some chicken soup if you offer her some”
“And after supper go beg forgiveness from Mary and John for leaving them in the lurch on Golgotha”
“It took David 22 times to compose his Psalms before he got around to mentioning us sheep, so we’ll forgive you your tardiness.”
“Let’s rise with the dawn, take your rod and staff
and make haste to the Kingdom…”
Sorry if my obtuseness clouded understanding(*)
(*)see footnote 86 on page 60 at
http://www.ccel.org/ccel/underhill/mysticism.iii.iii.html
“the cloud of unknowing” being a spiritual work of mercy of my Anglo-saxon kinswoman ,not my intended purpose, eccentricity being incompatible with holiness as Underhill writes, recall “By love He may be gotten and holden, but by thought of understanding, never.”
And lest my flippancy is seen as disrespect, allay your fear – we all know that the comedia delle arte I posted in pixels, above, is NOT what in actually transpired…… right?
Our Lord and Savior promised Peter and his chums something far more munificent than Ovis aries, for we are Homo sapiens with that inborn faculty for the Wisdom of the Logos, the inbreathing of the Holy Spirit, which we will celebrate at the Nativity Anniversary of the Church, just six days hence, at Pentecost.
The Holy Father is calling his brother priests to “fatherhood” to stop aborting the expectant mother in their care….
Postscript – Our Lord’s last words on the Cross are taken from Psalm 22
“My God, my God, why have you abandoned me?”
In the Brooklyn diocese our bishop has recently distributed an overview of the scandal in the diocese and the procedures in place to handle new allegations. Although “transparency” is stressed throughout, this document was described as not confidential, but for personal consumption only. How are we to move forward if the diocese’s analysis and plan is not made available for distribution to the average pewsitter? In his rather rambling analysis, the bishop emphasizes that ample provision is being made for the “fraternal” care of the abusers. They continue to receive their salary, their medical benefits, their car insurance. Retreats are held for the abusers twice a year, counseling is provided to them at no charge and they are encouraged to receive spiritual direction. Housing is provided to them, if they cannot find it themselves. The bishop points out that “providentially” they have all found their own dwellings. Providentially, my foot, part of the reason we got into this mess in the first place is that these guys had country places and second homes where they could have solitude with their victims. Isn’t it great that because of the expiration of the statute of limitations none of them has gone to jail and nobody has to be notified of their whereabouts. And the rest of us working stiffs have to foot the bill for their early retirement.
It’s called “circling the wagons” and it happens in lots of professions. I’m aware of cases among doctors and lawyers, and it probably happens in the teaching profession. The whistleblower is revealing something that will require, if believed, taking difficult action with painful consequences and side effects for lots of people. It also might make the profession look bad.
The victim or whistleblower is considered a “sxxt disturber” and most people just want to go along to get along. Or the priest or doctor or teacher is thinking that somebody could make an accusation like that about him/her sometime so they empathize with the accused person. Everybody knows about those accusations in their profession that get lots of press coverage and little coverage if the accusations turn out to be false.
And, especially in more (seemingly) innocent times, parents were not likely to believe their kids v. Father. It happened in my own family involving a priest (who was finally defrocked last year) who pre-emptively made false accusations against my brother. My 17 yr old brother was grounded for a year. After high school he ran off to a Colorado ashram and the strain between him and my parents lasted to their deaths. I didn’t hear the true story until a few days after my dad’s funeral. My brother still absolutely loathes the church. There are local priests who serve on the board of his retreat center and accompany tours to Catholic Shrines with his travel agency. There are more than the bishops at fault.
In a different review of the book I read that the Canon Law changes made in about 1982 removed bishops’ ability to deal effectively with errant priests on the local level. Evidently, John Paul wanted to slow down the laicization of priests wanting to get married. Having to go through Rome was a good way to accomplish that. It also took away the leverage a bishop on the scene used to have with priests’ bad behavior.
We’ve posted this excellent review on the book’s blog if anyone is interested in checking it out here. http://www.thefaithfuldepartedbook.blogspot.com
There will be news of book signings and media interviews posted as well.
Personally I was impressed with this book as I am impressed with its author. Phil is a good Catholic man, devoted to his family, passionate about the Faith and in my opinion humble, self effacing, talented and hardworking.
When I think of people (who shall remain nameless) who have made Catholicism into their own personal cottage industry and seem to seek to enrich and promote themselves and then I think of Phil Lawler, … well he’s the real thing.
Not only is this book well written and well researched it is interesting and easy to read. Best of all it is hopeful because a Christian without hope is no Christian at all.
Mary
[quote]Their job was to lead us in the right direction; and which came first, the laity disregarding Church teaching and bishops, or bishops disregarding Church teaching and the laity being abused?[/quote]
My point, though I do not seem to have made it very clearly, is that American Catholicism throughout the nineteenth and twentieth centuries was far too focused on integration into American society, and not sufficiently focused on the things of God. This general attitude couldn’t help but influence the bishops, given that it was the milieu in which they were raised. It was the entire American Church that created this crisis, not just some negligent bishops.